Most of us in youth ministry pour 100% of our passion into a job that pays about 75% of our family’s needs.
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Brock Morgan is a long-time friend of Marko and I. He’s a Cartel OG and our first presenter at The Summit to make a return visit this Fall. Brock has published two books with us (Youth Ministry in a Post-Christian World & The Amazing Next) which are both top sellers.
Recently, I caught up with Brock to hear how is summer has been going. Here’s our interview.
TYC: What’s summer look like in your ministry?
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5 Things You Need to Know
Work with teenagers? Yeah, you also work with parents, right? The folks over at Pew Internet just released a report on parent social media usage, let’s look at some highlights:
- 74% of parents who use social media get support from their friends there.
- 59% of social-media-using parents indicate that they have come across useful information specifically about parenting in the last 30 days while looking at other social media content.
- 12% of all parents of children under 18 say they have ever felt uncomfortable about something posted about their child on social media by a spouse, family member or friend. Fully 88% say they have not felt this way.
- Parents are particularly active on Facebook and LinkedIn, while non-parents use Instagram more frequently.
- Parents who use Instagram are not as active as non-parent users. Some 54% of non-parents who use Instagram say they use the site daily, compared with 39% of parents.
- The typical parent reports a median of 50 “actual” Facebook friends, while the typical non-parent counts 40 of their Facebook friends as “actual” friends.
- Some 93% of younger parents (those under age 40) who use Facebook are connected with friends from the past.
- Older parents, those ages 40 and above, are more likely to be friends with their children on Facebook.
What it Means for Youth Workers
- Facebook, Facebook, Facebook– the answer is Facebook. While Facebook’s popularity continues to wane with teenagers, Facebook is the dominant player with parents.
- Parents are looking for support, encouragement, and affirmation. I often see youth workers using Facebook for communication and resource sharing, this is good but it’s not really what parents are looking for. It can be really hard to gather parents, but many are online and willing to engage already. Consider creating a closed group for parents in your church or community, a safe place where they can encourage one another. Or maybe just make regular passes through parents in your life to be a positive, supportive voice in their life? (Alternatively, consider doing this via LinkedIn… their closed groups offer better moderation features.)
- Don’t forget about dads. The data shows that moms use social media more than dads, but not by much.
- Post good news about their kids! I think a lot of youth workers worry about that 12% of parents who might be uncomfortable when you post about their kid. Be mindful of them, but don’t forget about the 88% who don’t feel that way. Watch what happens when you post an update about something awesome their kid is doing, this is every parents love language. (Cough, job security alert!)
How are you engaging with parents on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, or LinkedIn?
As I’ve shared a few times here on the blog and on social media, we’ve got three brand new resources coming out over the next few weeks. First up, we’ve got Jesus Goes to the Movies and THINK Volume 3: Identity which come out next week, August 11th, and then we have In Search of Adolescence coming out a little later on September 8th.
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Students love movies. A lot. This is good because movies can teach us a thing or two about our world. In Jesus Goes to the Movies, Joel Mayward helps youth workers understand how film can be a tool for teenagers to better love God. As a film critic, I love this book. As a youth pastor, I love it even more.
Wade Bearden | @wadehance
Student Pastor, Houston, TX
Staff Writer at Christ and Pop Culture
Cohost of Seeing and Believing (film and TV podcast)
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In Search of Adolescence takes on the revisionist history so widely accepted in the church and the broader culture—the “history” that portrays adolescence itself as a modern invention, an aberration of the way young people were meant to grow up. A winsome writer, a fearless academic, and a brilliant researcher, Crystal Kirgiss unmasks the simplistic assumptions we’ve held for so long about the nature and importance of adolescence. Like a sharpshooter in a carnival shooting gallery, Crystal’s book blows away falsehood after falsehood with perfectly aimed research and totally disarming humor. This book has the potential to make us totally rethink the way we see young people and our work with them.
Mark DeVries MDiv | @markdevriesYMA
Founder, Ministry Architects
Author of Sustainable Youth Ministry
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A major goal of youth ministry in today’s world is not to spoon feed students what to think, but to teach them how to think. That is exactly what this series is doing. THINK, Vol. 3 is chalk full of vital topics and issues that students care about and need to think through. Buy this book, heck, buy the whole series—you and your students won’t regret it!
Brock Morgan | @brockmorgan
Author of Youth Ministry in a Post-Christian World
This week I had the chance to catch up with one of the busiest guys out there, Jonathan McKee. Jonathan is the author of a bunch of books, including The Zombie Apocalypse Survival Guide for Teenagers.
Adam: Jonathan, tell me what summer looks like for your ministry.
Jonathan: Spring and Fall are crazy full with travel, teaching parent workshops and speaking at events but that always calms down during the Summer. So Summer provides a time to work on some writing projects. I’m working on a new parenting book.
Adam: Whats the title?
Jonathan: Working title is, 52 Ways to Connect with Your Smartphone Obsessed Kid. Summer gives me a chance to work on those projects and catch up on some much needed administrative crud.
Adam: Crud, huh?
Jonathan: I could think of other choice words… but I think crud will suffice.
Adam: I’m sure you mean “stuff” right? So, when you’re not writing or doing administrative crud, what are you up to that isn’t work?
Jonathan: Kayaking and hanging out with my family.
Adam: Sweet, I spend a lot of time kayaking, too. What’s kayaking look like where you live?
Jonathan: Smooth water, long and fast. I have a race in July where I run 6 miles, bike 12 and kayak 6. I’m dropping weight and training hard so I can beat my time.
Adam: I’ve seen some of your Instagram posts. You actually work out at the same lake you wrote about in your The Zombie Apocalypse Survival Guide for Teenagers, right?
Jonathan: Yeah, there’s this fun little island in the middle of the lake. Every time I passed it I couldn’t help but think, What a perfect spot to escape during a zombie apocalypse. So it made it into my book.
Adam: When I work out I don’t think about zombie apocalypse, my only thoughts are “How much longer do I have to workout?” and “What’s for dinner?” Switching gears– Summer is a time for vacations. What is your dream vacation?
Jonathan: I’m taking it with my wife Lori this coming February for my 25th wedding anniversary. Two weeks in Hawaii, being pampered in a nice resort. I’m counting the days!
Adam: 25 years, that’s awesome. Lori is a saint! OK, what’s your favorite summer youth ministry story?
Jonathan: Oh, wow! So many. This is random, but it’s hot here in Sacramento right now, so that reminds me of the time I had a van load of kids on the way home from church— I used to cart unchurched kids to church each week with my family. So we’re literally driving back from church in a 15-passenger van on a desolate road 3 miles from my house… and I ran out of gas. My wife and kids are with me, the kids are in car seats and the second the van died the AC turned off and we’re all baking in the van.
To make matters worse, my wife had asked me that morning, “Are you sure we don’t need gas?”
I told her, “It’s fine.”
I kicked off my dress shoes and ran home three miles barefoot and brought my other car with a gas can.
Let’s just say Lori wasn’t happy with me that day.
Adam: Ah, the real reason you’re going to Hawaii is to make up for previous sins. Got it!
Jonathan: She never said, “I told you so.” But she did make me change a 101 degree diaper when we got home. Whew!
Adam: What’s your least favorite part of summer youth ministry?
Jonathan: Besides that diaper? That’s a tough one. I like so many aspects of summer youth ministry. But one year my boss assigned me a campus two weeks before school started and said, “You’re in charge of this campus.” I had two weeks to recruit volunteers, raise a budget… and find some kids!” It was a wild ride. Fun experience to look back on.
Adam: Good times. Thanks for taking time to talk with us today.
Jonathan: Thank you. It’s been fun partnering with you on The Zombie Apocalypse Survival Guide for Teenagers. Truly one of the most adventurous projects I’ve worked on.Learn more about our Zombie Devotional
This summer we’re interviewing our authors to learn more about their summer.
Catching up with Jen Bradbury had a special wrinkle to it. Besides being the author of The Jesus Gap, Jen is a full-time Director of Youth Ministry at Faith Lutheran Church in Glenn Ellyn, Illinois and she just became a new mom in Late May.
Adam: So, what’s summer look like in your ministry?
Jen: Summer looks very different than the rest of the year. Our programming year is intentionally September through May so that we can give our leaders and families a break from regular, weekly programming during the summer. This means that during the summer, we change things up. Our focus is on our summer mission trip but we also typically hold a short, two or three week experiential Bible study for whoever is still around. Additionally, I spend a lot of time training and equipping next year’s student leaders through a series of meetings, readings, and an end-of-the-summer retreat.
Adam: What are you up to that isn’t work? Are you going to be able to sneak in a vacation?
Jen: Well – I just had a baby (Hope) so this summer, a lot of what I’m up to isn’t church work. In fact, I’m on maternity leave for the first eight weeks of summer. Towards the end of that, we’ll take a short trip to Michigan just to prove to ourselves that it’s possible to travel with a baby. I’m also working on another book for the Youth Cartel – a devotional about Jesus based on the research from The Jesus Gap.
Adam: Obviously, we’re super excited about that devotional and can’t wait to get it out there. Let’s dream a little, let’s pretend that you had all the time in the world and money weren’t an issue. What’s your dream summer vacation?
Jen: Camping and backpacking in the mountains. My husband and I went to Alaska several years ago. I’d love to return there and spend some extended time in Denali National Park.
Adam: Shifting gears back to youth ministry, share a favorite summer youth ministry story.
Jen: One of my favorites is actually from when I was in high school. My church took an annual canoe trip to the Boundary Waters in Minnesota.
On one trip, everything that could go wrong, went wrong. Weeks before, our pastor – who was supposed to go on the trip – got transferred to another congregation. The girlfriend of our other adult leader filled in for her. About half-way through the trip, our trip leader found a huge, hairy spider and proceeded to chase his girlfriend around the campsite with it. Unfortunately, she tripped over a log and fell, severely fracturing both her tibia and fibia. Since this was in the days before cell phones, we had no way of getting help. (The Boundary Waters is a legitimate wilderness area!) Left with no other choice, our trip leader left us alone the next day and paddled back to our starting point for help. While he was gone, a bear invaded our campsite. Eventually, a seaplane arrived to airlift our injured leader out and our trip leader returned. At that point, though, we were a full day behind, so we were forced to canoe through the night in order to reach our final destination on time. Now, some 20 years later, my friends and I still affectionately refer to that trip as The Canoe Trip From Hell.
Adam: Hmmm… maybe that’d be a good student devotional someday? That’d be a great title, “The Canoe Trip From Hell.”
So, what’s your least favorite part about summer in youth ministry?
Jen: While I love the fact that we don’t have regular weekly summer programming because of the break it gives our leaders, the reality of this is that there are some teens we don’t see ALL summer. They’re missed!
If you’re looking for a book to take on your summer vacation, allow me to recommend The Jesus Gap. In her book, Jen shares what she learned in a national study within the her denomination. The Jesus Gap discovers the gap between what we’re teaching our students about Jesus and what they are actually learning.
Use coupon code SUMMERGAP to save 33% on The Jesus Gap now through July 1st.Learn More